So glad to hear, Bright. I think we are taking similar steps. I went to happy hour yesterday, and I was thinking of you! Funny thing is, I am 37 years old, and this year is the first year I've ever gone to happy hour.
Xh did like that idea of me going... so I didn't rock the boat. It wasn't that important to me. He, on the other hand, went many a time... I recall several specific examples of him going to celebrate some girl getting a new job, different "birthday" celebrations with people from work, including celebrating other women's birthday... but my birthday was "just another day." Whoa.... I'm going backwards here.... PULL THE REINS!!!! Yuck- full stem ahead in not only a hijack.... but and unnecessary one going to a place that is in the past.... and OVER!
ANYWAY- I am happy you have been going out and having fun. I am happy you are meeting new people. I have been doing the same. It feels good, right?
Can't wait to hear more about some of you *happenings*!
As for h... don't be afraid of being you. You have been through a lot. You don't owe him anything. You are a good person. He knows this. He just doesn't even know what he is doing. Just keep moving along finding your way and you happiness!
