I know that you feel that if you detach you may lose the love. If you detach, you are giving up. That is scary.
uR, you hit the nail in the head. This is exactly what my fear is.
Shining, interesting perspective about getting out of H’s way. I have that in my sithc, big time. I’m out of his way completely. Well, almost with the exception of company business sometimes and the vacation home. But I haven’t seen him or talked to him since May. I still feel like it is to my disadvantage, not benefit.
I’m glad to see that you are doing good. Have a great weekend.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
