After I posted that, H responded to my email about me getting removed from the Christmas planning email list that his aunt sends: "Sorry, she knows [about us]. I guess she's just being a b*tch. I'll ask her to remove you." It's interesting that that is his first assumption, rather than... maybe she just forgot to take me off? Or something else? I guess this has opened my eyes a little more and helped me to acknowledge how he can be closed-minded and often assume the worst in people (they are out to get him, they are just mean, etc.). "Immature" is the word that keeps coming up from IC and the people that know us both well. I think these are things I knew before but just chose to ignore them/let them go because I didn't want to see how he was
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
