If a MLC takes years to work through, isn't there bound to be some stagnation in there? What with the whole "we can't fix 'em" and all?
You asked me this question on Cali's thread and I'd like to respond.
Getting a different response is not fixing them, and my thoughts on changing things only apply if you can no longer handle the status quo/stagnation of the situation.
A different response can be anything from them being a little nicer to them not involving you in their drama...whatever YOU need to make it for as long as you can through their MLC.
This whole MLC trip your involvement, lasts only as long as you are willing to be a part of it.
Did that make any sense?
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