A few more notes on what's going on, really not feeling so lost anymore! Confused as hell yes, but not lost!
H has not been doing a whole lot, I am a little worried that he may become a little depressed, that will not be good for our situation, especially with his tendency not to look at himself. I know I can't control him or help him in that regard, just more of an observation I guess.
H's sister texted me about plans for Thanksgiving. We will be spending the day with his family.
Last night, he made the comment of maybe finding an old car to fix up instead of just watching shows on tv about it. I showed excitement for him and definitely showed support, I think it would be very cool! He said he'd have to clean out the garage to make room. That to me is future thinking that he has no plans on going anywhere!
A couple of hours later I had gone into my room to read and D13 asked H where I was to which he responded "in HER room."
This is where believe none of what they say and only half of what the do comes in I guess, he is still all over the map.
Today, after I finished mopping floors (my lack of effort around the house was another big factor in the decay or our M) he said he was in the mood for a gyro and asked if I wanted to go to the mall. We did and we spent some time shopping before we ate, he bought a few things and I was able to give him some genuine compliments.
D13 has a tournament this weekend so we will be spending most of the weekend together. H also told me that his sister and husband are coming over Sat. to drink beer and that his brother would probably come over as well. Lots of family time.
Hope everybody has a great weekend! Do lots of fun things!
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
