Ss, a while back you said "when is that woman going to get out of my head?!"
I have a great friend who told me a long time ago that we all have a committee of other people's voices in our heads, and if we can't get rid of them then we should at least they give us positive messages. If you have someone on your committee who is hurting you, you have to fire them. Then you need to either replace them with someone supportive or leave the position empty so your own voice sounds louder.
Every time you hear your mom contributing to your actions, think "YOU'RE FIRED," very firmly but calmly, and choose a different voice to listen to.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
