Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD - pt. 2

[gogofo]

Does sleeping with her give you mixed signals?

I am not sure, but the answer is probably yes. To clarify, by sleeping together I just mean sleeping, not ML.

I know I feel better and more positive about our R when we share a bed together. It is an understandable action, sharing a bed. But I know I also put too much stock into it's significance. We shared a bed the night she told me she wanted me to move out of her house in the beginning of October. She has never told me to sleep on the couch, etc. when we were fighting.

The biggest of mixed signals comes from when she feels hurt and wants to D. It seems to come out of the blue because she is not sharing these feelings with me.

We went for our overnight trip on Wednesday and had a great time and a great talk in the car on the way home. We continue to learn more about each other and how we misinterpret or assume things that create issues.

Due to her being sick and also her invitations to me we ended up sharing a bed every night since Monday. Not as I had planned and I openly expressed not wanting her to feel smothered. We need to further discuss. But tonight she is going with her friends and I have the kids and we are spending the evening at separate houses. She will do school in the a.m. both days this weekend and I will be working on the house.

I can add more to my post with details about the trip etc. later on tonight.