Hi everyone! Just got an email from the place I interviewed first. They want me to come in and meet everyone next Wednesday. No way that they would bother if they weren't very interested in me. I'm getting crap from the place I am working now. We had to move the offices since the money guy hasn't been paying the rent. So he texts yesterday saying he wants to meet at the new office today. (I've been working from home all week) Either in the morning or afternoon. I text back that my D14 may have an appt. in the AM, I had to check with my W as she isn't sure. So, today at 10:00 AM I get a text saying we are to meet at 3:00 at new office. So, I text back that I have to pick my D14 up from school at 3:45 and the office is 40 min's from the school. Now, if I had a little head's up I could have arranged something but I didn't. So this guy texts back "You can't meet in the morning b/c you have to take your D to appt., and now you can't meet in afternoon because you have to pick up D from school....." then another text right after saying "Don't bother replying". What an a$$hat! Hey, I'm a single parent now. I can't just jump when he says so and leave my D14 hanging! If he'd paid the rent, this wouldn't be happening! I am so glad that I won't be working there much longer. I just feel bad for the clients I will leave behind. They will have to deal with that idiot.
So, last night W calls me about 9:00 PM. She asks if D14 is with me as I had told her I may need to have her stay with W if I had a follow up interview. I told D14 to tell her mom I'm not going to need her to stay but she didn't and W wanted to be sure she was with me and not "missing". She says she has told D14 to text her when she gets home after school and if she is going somewhere and she has been "slacking off" lately. Well, seems W cares about her D, just not enough to come home at a decent hour. W said that even texting will just help retrace her steps if D14 gets abducted. Doesn't she understand how worrying it is that she is leaving D14 all alone like that? Well, I apologized and told her I had thought D14 had told her. W says she is planning to go to see her dad this weekend. It's a several hour trip so I offer to keep D14 until Monday instead of getting her Sunday. That way, W won't have to rush home Sunday. She thanked me and said that would really help her out. I asked her about Thanksgiving and that D19 was going to be all alone and I was going to spend it with her. I said that if she was going to go see her dad, I would take D14. So, W tells me that she had thought about HER having TG and inviting both D19 and ME so we could all spend the day together but with D19 having to go to work that night, it would be hard. Um, really. She didn't say this to D19, me or D14. For my part I said that would work as long as D19 could get back in time for work. Of course, I really don't think it will happen. Just another thing that W "thinks" about doing but doesn't do. I asked about her dad and how he was and he isn't well but I wanted to show sympathy. I was the one to end the talk. W was nice, seemed to care about D19, even said she may invite me and girls to her place for TG dinner. Thing is, I don't think she will. I have no expectation that she will actually do this. It doesn't bother me at all and I like that. I'm becoming more detached every day now. Of course in the past whenever W was nice like this something horrible was about to happen like her demanding I give up the house or her lawyer filing something new so I will be ready for that. In fact, I missed a call from my lawyer today so her lawyer may have done something new, who knows. No expectations! Just glad that she was nice on the call and seemed more like her old self.
So, big day next Wednesday. Everyone wish me luck and cross your fingers for me as it would be great if I could get this job and have at least some money before X-mass! Also, I still may be able to make some money before I leave the place I'm at now. That would be great and I have all next week to do just that. As long as I have enough time to get the money in and get my commission. Hope everyone is doing well out there!
