After a couple day silence, BF texted me to remind me not to forget the half of the electric bill I'd still left to pay. I took care of it and texted him back that I'd done so.

He asked me if I had any trouble driving to work today (it snowed a little over night) and told me he was drifting on black ice so bad he had thought he'd gotten a flat.

I told him that I had no trouble, myself, but, "I'm very glad you made it safe; not that there was any doubt. Your driving skills have always been super impressive, to me."

Build him up, I guess. Positive positives.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies