Trying to stay patient- part 7

[Mozza]

Now, our challenge is to become trustworthy again, and that means to be worthy of their love. That day, they will start telling us truth they wouldn't share with their OM. I know it sounds weird to say that they are the liars and we are not trustworthy, but it's about WHY they started lying to us: we just didn't deliver in the love and M departments.

WHOA!!!!!!!

I could not disagree with this more.

Care to elaborate? I'm curious. I wonder if it's a misunderstanding or a real disagreement.

Oh, I'll be the first to admit I'm NOWHERE ready to date. As much as I'd love to have someone of the opposite sex to hang out with, I'm just not ready for that. What I regretted about not approaching that girl last night, was that it was a perfect opportunity to reach out of my comfort zone and be more outgoing.

There's a lot of pushback on these boards against dating during the sitch, so I thought I'd let you know that I'm at the same place you are. I'm nowhere near ready to date and I can feel it very clearly. Yet, I'm ready to get out of my comfort zone and explore my feelings when interacting with women. You can read about my experience at a sort-of blind date.