I'm confused too. I do see that our spouses are very similar to how they are reacting to the S and probably have similar personalities.
To add on to what Mozz says, is it that his catalyst was criticism which caused her to emotionally shut down and mine was that I neglected her emotions which caused her to see me as critical of her?
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
