I know from my own personal experience with having pieced and lost a couple of times it is the fear itself that helped create some of the circumstances leading to the next walk out. I don't thing us LBSs can stop the fear but we must find ways to not let it be the focus and we must never let that fear define our actions, determine moods, or make decisions.
I say this not because I have come anywhere near being able to practice it in my own life, but because of the damage it has done.
Nitty and Train I am so happy for both you guys.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3