Let's try this again

[woundedfool]

TO324 thanks for the response on finances. No it was not TMI, gives a pretty good picture. Now the crux of my answer would be... ok never mind.

But I will throw something out from the cheap seats:

Financially you seem to have a good awareness of where you are, and where you need to be. While its good you have concerns and awareness of H's finances, that is his issue to conquer. Not that you were focusing on his problem.... quite the opposite. You seem to have this well in hand (and don't worry, its OK to vent here).

Keep staying the course in this.