I went to my son's parent/teacher conference last night. My W didn't want to go. That was kind of disappointing. Her reasoning was that she didn't want to burden her parents by having them watch our kids for the 30 minutes we'd be out of the house in the evening.

Of course, this instantly led me to think, "Just last month, you had no problem burdening your parents for 24 hours so you could spend time with your affair partner."

Obviously I kept that to myself, but it was certainly a "SMH moment".

When I returned, she asked me how it went and I felt like it was an interrogation. I gave her a rundown of everything that was discussed. I was 'this' close to firing back at her. "If you're so damn concerned, then you should have went." crossed my mind.

The resentment is really building up. But...

On a happier note, she bought two more shirts for me (one was a sweater) and commented how I looked nice in them when I tried them on.

We leave for our cruise tomorrow. I still have to pack and sort out some things for the house.


M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!