Thanks everyone for your comments and support.

Job-garnishments are put in place, but every time they start he quits his job. As far as his taxes, well, he hasn't filed 2013's yet, so I imagine he is going to avoid the tax man too!

I am going to see my attorney today to see if we can find a solution, but like I said $13,000 is a lot of money that I need and paying an attorney is getting costly too. I know others have been there and I am not special, but I guess I am just feeling the pressures right now is all.

NLW & whytry- Thank you for your support. It helps to have a "friend" who has been there and won't judge.

NLW-I will look up your threads.

Job, in your opinion, have you seen these sitches right themselves after the MLC'er settles, irregardless of the saved marriage? I mean do deadbeats turn around and support their kids at least at some point (financially, emotionally, and physically)?


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life