She is always so logical. I will tell you this; my M may not be saved, but there is considerable less tension between me and W now that she has left. I do not believe she has given any thought to returning, but she has been out only 3 weeks. And she told she was not coming back. Ironically, I see her more now, than when she was here. Whenever she was here, I left and vice-versa. We were avoiding each other. She said time and time again, she had to get out of the house to survive, she was miserable and did not look forward to coming here. But now, she comes around. The WAS contradiction I call it. Believe me, as Bets testifies to, you are certain your M is over when the other person leaves and it may well be, but the alternative, as you know, is not good for anybody. But you will know in your heart what you need to do.
