Merrick,

I'm afraid that I must agree with Laurie on the separation issue. I know you are getting conflicting opinions here, but I believe that, if you leave, you lose out on MAMY opportunities to DB. I have read countless threads on this BB where the LBS wishes that they could be in the same house in order to DB. When there is a separation, your chances to show and try new things is minimal. The key here is to detach while being with her...maybe more out-of-body experiences.

Regarding the ILs, you have to DB with them too. Every interaction you have with them has to be as if you are DBing with them too. Don't argue or get defensive...just validate and acknowledge.

Christine


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