He has said for months he wants to start by us becoming friends again. But he didn't push for separation or divorce after we started going to MC. He even agreed we needed to have a therapist that was "pro-marriage". I didn't expect miracles or for him to fall right back in love with me. I just didn't think he would totally withdraw out of the blue and start talking about divorce after all this progress we've made. The detaching has been hardest because I become weak when he shows affection and intimacy. I can't deny him it because I crave it so much. I wish he didn't live here so it would be easier to distance from him emotionally as well as physically. I have been trying to do 180s. They kind of backfired this past week but I guess I still need to try them out a bit more?
H: 43 W: 39 Married: 11 years Together: 18 years 1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation 2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce No kids EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over
