Quote: Be strong and really disconnect and show her your strength.
M,
Eddy, as usual, is on. You are fighting her every step of the way. Think about what you would suggest to someone if you read this thread as a 3rd party?
Think about what you tell others and why you will not listen to yourself? You cannot "fix" this; but you can break it apart permanently. We all know how impossible it is to do nothing, but right now you have little choice but to focus on you and the children.
Right now, I have NO conversations with W about R or M. I long for that. But intellectually, I know it would be nonproductive. She may well file and we will never have another R discussion, but right now, as you say, isn't being pleasant to each other and able to have an everyday conversation better than the alternative?
