Nitty, that link on what to do at a company party is absolutely great! You can do it!

There are definitely some positive changes in your H. Be patient. I would probably take the same approach. You are giving your best to give your M a chance, but you are not attached to the outcome.

I agree with daring, your post give me the hope.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state