Oh, Shining, your last post just cracked me up. This is just so funny… “Reduction”… I don’t even know what it means. And I’m a pretty good cook. He is definitely all over the place. You, on the other side, sound very good. I was reading your post about how you don’t want this man the way he is right now and how it would take him a long time to come out of it. I’ve thinking this too, about my H. It might take him a lot longer to resolve his issues. I just might be not there anymore. I can feel it is coming…

Oh, yeah, and the vasectomy. My didn’t advertise it to me, but he didn’t try to hide it either. My friends know about it. So much for the effort and pain… He is still looking for a perfect woman…


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state