Merrick, Push push push your going to push her off the damn cliff.Stop what our doing.If it isn't working stop it.
What if you did move out?At some point it might become nessassary to do that.She would have a taste of full time single motherhood.And let me tell you it is the hardest thing I have ever done.If you move out who will help her with the day to day things.Like getting the kids off to school,bath time,dinner and all that house work?
I'm not saying to move out.It is a lot harder to DB when you are not around her.However right now she has said that your presence there is antagonizing (spellimg) her.
You two might need to take a break from each other.So at the very least if I were you i would back off so completetly she would barely know i was in the house.
As far as asking her to ML i'm sure you know what the answer to that is.So I won't even go into that.
Pull away for now and let her have her space.Your trying to get her to change her mind.Your giving her a good defense in her mind.
You need to just let her be.And no more talking to the in laws.
Your job as a father is to love your children and to provide for them a home and food.Your to set a good example of love.And sometimes love is down right filthy work.it ain't alway pretty hearts and flowers.Sometimes there manure in there.
A good father gives his time and energy to his children.
Your wife needs you to let her be.If you keep this up she is not going to want to work it out.
Pull back. Later Friend. Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
