Merrick, During Christmas my in laws tried to get into it with me.My mother in law sent me three horrible emails telling me what a terrible wife,mother and daughter in law I was.She even put down my family.She has never even met my family.My mother is senile and she even put her down.So I sent them a email asking them to not contact me.I did it in a kind gentle way.I told them that I did not want to say things that I would never be able to take back.That I loved them and always will.And this was between me and there son.He is welcome to tell them anything he wishes but I refuse to say anything against my husband.And I left it at that.
Now on to you.You have been on the recieving end of a beating.So now would be the time to pull back and lick your wounds.You will not be able to say kind or do kind things while you are hurting.Right now buddy your iron is very hot.
Pull back and get your soldiers in place.Read your bible,Pray,meditate,call your friends to pray.And when your really ready to you can get back in the game.
Whenever I'm on this end of a emotional beating i pull back so I can't be hurt more.
If I were you I would take the phone off the hook,shut off the cell, and not read any email for a while.
Visit my thread if you need to .I'm sure I will get back on later Later Friend. Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
