MLC W Dates, Part V

[Truegritter]

then I turn it around and ask God to bless my W because she is the Mother of our 4 children. Or bc she was instrumental in my faith story, etc.)

Why not end this sentence with just asking to bless your W? Why qualify it with the rest?

So I've decided to not go forward with finishing up our divorce. I can do this, I can stand for our marriage - today, I can do this.

Yes you can. It will help you if you start to understand why. I see my friends here have been posting to you about love...

I would venture to guess this may be testing every limit you know about the word.

And if you have not been humbled by this yet then I hope that happens soon for you.

You are here because your W is in crisis. That may be hard to remember at times...

What you do about it is YOUR choice. To choose to be a victim or to move forward on a path of Your own choosing.

Some words to think about:

How would you want to be loved when you are in a crisis?

When you are so scared you reject your family and your vows.?

When you are so confused you behave in ways that are hurtful to yourself and others you love?

When your mind is full of chaotic thoughts?

When does your W most need you to love her?

When she is calm and peaceful? Settled and sure?

That is the easy part....

So the question...

How would you want to be loved?

What does love mean for you?