I will surely get fired!!! But I write as this is fresh in my mind.
W calls back and I make the mistake of answering the phone. She's calm, but asks what I told her father before I hung up on him. Did I call again?
I decided to be truthful and said I called to apologize, but warned him that if he wanted to get in the middle of our sitch, he'd hear things he didn't want to hear.
W: Like what? The e-mails with OM? Me: I really don't want to talk about this. W: You never want to talk. What did you mean? Me: Not on this (talk). Look, I don't hold any grudges and I'm just trying to live my life as best as I can and as best for our kids. You do what you have to do. I have nothing more to say. Goodbye.
I really want to talk and validate, but the control freak wants a fight and that's a cheeseless tunnel.