After it's all said and done I do still see XH in person from time to time. When I see him in person and it's just he and I talking, it shakes me to the core.
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Exactly!
Which is why for me, it is best if I don't even talk to her unless absolutely needed.
We ALL need to detach and yet, it is so damn hard.
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13