You are my conscience talking. Rather than go for coffee, I gave the "date" my cell phone number and she called tonight. We chatted for about an hour until W came in--although I didn't have the gumption to continue the call while W was there.
I told the date everything I was doing in my M, why I had checked out the date site, and that I was committed to my W and kids, but needed some outlet to see what the world was like beyond my four walls if they come down. She started right out saying that people can become friends without sex being involved and that's what she was looking for. She was divorced and seemed as nervous as me--but found no reason to hang up. I confess that I felt no excitement during the call--but it was just nice to know for myself that that I could do this if I have to. Better yet, she's got a 22 year-old daughter! Just kidding.