The anger is to protect herself. If she wasnt angry she would be vulnerable. It is a wall that they erect. It is how they rationalize their actins. Your job is to not fuel that fire. You do this by not texting calling. You give them space. They will make mountains out of nothing. It is script that they all follow.

What do you do? You live your life. Make yourself happy by doing things meeting people. You dont sit around waiting for her. If you do she will notice. Guess what happens? She gets angry.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden