Keep on prayin' Merrick...God is testing you and your strength will get you through this. It was great that you didn't cave to your W in her bantering.
Sometimes those aliens really can get nasty and for you to hold your ground is a good thing. I remember that some of the others on the BB did the same thing and eventually things turned around for them. So, if your W really wants out then it's up to her to leave.
Keep it up and you will be blessed. Tootles.........