What I read was that these run away husbands (MLCers, WAH) have the "tendency" to really identify with the women that are in their lives at the time, and actually try to mold into what they want. This is because their identity is wrapped up in the women they're with, therefore they start doing, saying and acting like the OW or doing things just to please them.
Agreed!!!
I've said many times on this board that XW actually BECAME OM. Seriously, I think they become a lot like the person that they are with. Just goes to show how weak-minded they are. I've witnessed it many times with XW's sister. Anytime she was with a different man, her personality changed and she became just like him.
Anyways, that's all I have to add. I haven't spoken to you in a while. Hope you are doing well.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
