My thoughts immediately afterward was that I had loved this woman deeply at one point and I feel absolutely nothing for her now. Ahhh...what a nice awakening moment. I am officially at the indifference stage.

You melt my butter, Wonka.

I always tell my "big" daughters: "The opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference."

I'm sad for where you've been - and for what you've been through - but I'm happy you are feeling liberated and at peace.

And I think you're right: BIG things are on the very-near horizon for you. You're a shooting star.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014