I mean the DB stuff - as well as any insights that my fellow devotees may offer - is why I am here, and what I'm more than willing to try as nothing else I have done has worked. I'm a very direct person, so the DB techniques go very much against my personality. But, perhaps, its my very personality that need to be conquered for an opportunity to arise to bring my wife and I closer. My ego doesn't like that thought, but the rest of me is telling my ego to shut up and go home.
I may not understand her anger, but I never said I do not give it credence. She obviously has her reasons, whether I see them or not. But I welcome the opportunity to understand it better through the experience of others. So thank you, rppfl, for your spt on observation. Should you have any more, I welcome what you may have to add.
