Hi Merrick,
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While I wouldn't say I'm a slouch, we 42 year-old 5'6 guys don't turn too many heads at bar unless we're flashing a lot of cash.


Don't sell yourself short. I don't even know what you look like but I would go out for a drink with you anytime and I'm sure there are plenty of others too! Maybe I'll give you a ring next time I'm in town!!!
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would like to say it sounds like your W is really reaching for stuff here. Really hard. Looking for any tiny detail to jump all over you. I know you might not want to hear this, but it reminds me a lot of Eddy's W when she got the police involved and all that other stuff. Really reaching. Not that your W would do that, but when they get desperate and have no grounds and they try to shove a square peg in a round hole, they really get pshyco. Theres no other word for it. This might be what Eddy was mentioning.



I agree with Seattle. Please, please keep your eyes and ears open! My H was grasping for reasons too. At one point he threatened to have me involuntarity committed, luckily, it's not possible in this state. Just as in Eddy's case, there can be absolutely no grounds for any accusations (his was eventually dismissed), but what a mess it can cause. I'm not trying to scare you...just keep your eyes open.

Christine

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