When my husband walked away and found another woman the message he gave me was that out relationship was worthless and that I was worthless.That our family was worthless.And that I and my feelings did not matter.
Yes I have throughly gotten the message he has moved on.
So if I started to date I would be agreeing with him.
Do you want to send the message that your relationship is worthless?
Do you want to hurt her? Is dating going to send her the message that you love her? Will it bring you closer? Will it make you proud of yourself? Will it be the honorable thing to do? Will you be keeping you word Or wedding vows?
I'm sure having another woman will for a while make you feel better,But in the long run you will not have done something you will be proud of.
You can not respect yourself if you do not behave in a respectable way.
Look at how a lot of WAS feel guilt.I know I don't want to feel that way myself.
You should hold yourself to the same stanard you want from your wife.
But a little mystery is a good thing.You can make her wonder if you want.After all I did this week.Did you see my thread on MLC and what I did.I might have gone to far but we will see.
Later Friend. Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
