You ask a tricky question here. Whenever I would reach a point like this, I would ask myself, "Christine, how would you feel if H did this?" I know that I wouldn't like it. I don't like the idea of keeping these kind of secrets and, until the ink is on the paper, I want to be 100% committed to the M. If it is not something that I would like H to do, then it is not something that I can do.
A question to ask yourself is, "what are you hoping to get out of this?" I would advise extreme caution because you are more vulnerable than you think. Do you want to complicate things more than they already are? Do you want to get another person mixed up in all of this (even if it is casual)?
On the other hand, it would be good to add some mystery. Is this possible without actually involving another person?
Christine
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!
