Focus on your life right now. Don't make any decisions based on "will that save my M or kill it?" Your W is gone.
Does that mean you do something boneheaded like move in (for free) with a person known throughout your universe as a skank? As the office "ho-worker"?
"Hoju and the Office Bicycle. Yes. They are living together. He left his wife. He says it's just a business arrangement. Yeah. Right."
Thereby guaranteeing you to be branded by everyone in your employment as a member of Ho-Workers United even if you never touch each other?
Frankly, that would be a stupid move for your job, for your work reputation, etc.
Frankly, nothing ever comes for free.
Frankly, moving in with this gal would be a bad idea, I think, even if you were a single man with no R history whatsoever.
Therefore, I would recommend against it. Not because it would hurt your chances of reconciliation, but because it is a bad decision for Hoju.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R
