As I've posted last month, my W has given the OM an ultimatum (to choose between his W and her) with a deadline of year's end.
Recently, the OM told my W that he does not forsee himself filing for D in the near future. But then suggested that in 3 to 5 years, perhaps his W may end up leaving him anyways. He asked, "will you wait for me"?
My W responded, "If we break up, that is the end. You can never come back to me."
So it appears that my W's ultimatum will be tested come new year's. We'll also find out if my W comes through on her declaration to file for D after the new year.
In the meantime, we have Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up. This means company holiday parties, family gatherings, etc. to consider. This will be very interesting indeed.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
