Why does she feel that YOU have to be the one to leave when SHE wants out? What would happen if you were to validate this diatribe and offer her that alternative?
Better yet, what were Laurie's words on this? I'm sure you have already discussed this with her, so please don't assume I know the answers.
It just seems awfully close to her tying to control you and the circumstances to deliver an outcome that SHE wants. Therefore, when you leave, the responsibility for the failure will be pointed at you.
I don't like it at all. Furthermore, you deserve better.
Hugs,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
