Hello Everyone. It has been seven years since I last felt the need to post. There have been many, many good times in the marriage since I last wrote in this forum and the have been, naturally, some difficult times too. I am still married to the same woman and I still love her dearly.
However, she is an alien again and wants a divorce. I don't know if she is having another affair and I don't know why she feels our marriage has never really changed for the better.
In April of 2012 I was diagnosed with moderate to severe Crohn's disease and one surgery has already been needed. My wife has said she doesn't want to be married to someone who is sick all of the time. If you read my earlier history you would know that I have severe allergies already and a multitude of other health issues. I will elaborate on them later but for now simply want to ask, just so I can wrap my mind around what is again happening to my marriage, if someone could post DBing's seven steps. All I can remember is "Going Dark," "Act As If...," and "Do a 180." Please. I cannot find my book about DBing and I want to get started immediately using what I remember worked the last time. I'm not trying to cheat Michelle out of her well deserved $12, just trying to jog my memory.
