Rali, I long for the marriage that was, and for the marriage that might yet be (gotta track down those Crimson threads), but after OM was revealed, I looked forward to the day XW was out of my house.

Sounds like healthy detachment. Even tho you still want a nuclear family for your girls, and you feel that for sure, he no longer appeals to you. And why would he? The only thing attractive about my XW now is physical and the fact that she keeps me informed about ups and downs with my kids.

I do declare a step forward in your progress.


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20