LiveNow. Catching up on your sitch. You are right, we are in similar positions and timelines. I hate dealing with the financial stuff because it feels like another step towards a D that I don't want. But, as I have come to realize and I am beginning to accept, this is the path that is now in front of us and we must walk it so let's do it in the way that is best for us in the end.

Love your tattoo. I've never wanted one until recently, but U haven't decided what. I love your idea and I might just steal it if you let me...

Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together