I went looking for photos online, and I found exactly what I was looking for - similar to what you found. They literally took my breath away, as I had only suspected, and had had no proof up until then. Suddenly I was looking at my husband's face -- looking very happy -- with someone else 13 years younger than me (and 17 years younger than him!).
Thanks LiveNow. Yes, I searched them out and I found them. I feel like an idiot, I knew that IF I found them they would only hurt me but I did it anyway.
How can he (they) possibly think that a R or M with someone so much younger will work, long term? Especially when built on lies (if not lying to OW, which I doubt, he was most certainly lying to me). Seriously H? You are 41 and she is 23! A recipe for disaster and classic MLC behavior (but he's not in MLC, right?)! I just hope that the damage that will be done in the meantime will not be irreparable, to either H or OW or us!
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together
