fthnluv - I'm on the same timetable as you -- BD 2013, and things are moving in the direction towards D now. I know how it is to see those photos. Last Feb. I went looking for photos online, and I found exactly what I was looking for - similar to what you found. They literally took my breath away, as I had only suspected, and had had no proof up until then. Suddenly I was looking at my husband's face -- looking very happy -- with someone else 13 years younger than me (and 17 years younger than him!). I'll never forget it, 8:00 in the morning on a Saturday. Woke up my sister on the phone. But, I think I was meant to find them, and wasn't ready to see them until right then. It's not a good thing to keep looking, but I figure, at the moment, I'm still married, and I have a right to know. Sounds like you are on the right track though now, as you work through all the financials. I wish you the best of luck as you're moving forward. You sound like you're doing great!
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
