It must have been quite a surprise to discover after all those years that your job upsets your wife. Don't know if you can believe a thing she says now, but if you do, at least you're gathering intelligence. Beats not knowing.
RobX' approach is impressive. Are you considering giving it a shot?
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
