I got some input today from a real life friend that is hard to swallow but probably right.
She said, it totally works in my favor if he dates and finds out its not all he thinks it's cracked up to be. Because as long as I'm not making things worse, then my grass is greener than anybody else's. In the long run.
(Open question if I'm managing to not make things worse, but considering the train wrecks that have been taking place in my small community, I'm freaking amazing!)
So I'd say, If you put that out there to your already divorced wife, the main thing you'll lose is time wih your kids. My two cents.
Sending you hugs, Shakes, I really feel for you.
BTW, I saw a small live production a few years ago of a Shakespearean rendition of The Big Lebowski. So in your honor, I'll quote:
The Knave Abideth.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
