Originally Posted By: MrBond
What was it that you did wrong?

You did something and was EXPECTING her to respond a certain way. Then when she didn't, you got upset. It's not a poor idea. What's poor is you expecting her to respond in a way that you want to and not in a way she wants to.

In fact, I'm sure there are many times that you did something like that over the course of your relationship and she didn't respond but you didnt' think anything of it. You're being hyper sensitive.


You're right. The expectation I put on her response was my mistake. And yes, I am being hypersensitive. It has been that kind of couple of days for me I guess.


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Together- 27
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