She had been having a side ache the last couple days. Went to see a Dr. and had to have blood drawn and CT scan, still waiting for results but it could be appendix or gall bladder (fun).
Last night she was watching two of our nieces and her mom was going to stay the night. I picked her up from the Dr. and she asked I come out and help.
I cooked dinner for us while her mom fed the kids. Put the kids down and helped out with all around the house.
She asked me to stay the night, she really did need the help, but it felt good to be asked. I know her personality and she would not have asked if we were not in a good (or okay) spot in our R.
She told me later that when I was making beds for kids, etc, that her mom said "he is staying the night, right!?". Her mom was overwhelmed by four kids and knew she did not want to do it alone and did not want my W picking kids up, etc.
I called my mom, a nurse, and found out the details to get her some pain meds (she refused them yesterday and regretted it). Called the W back and told her what she could do so I could get her Rx and some meds.
Look at that; me taking charge, figuring out the steps for her and offering her a step by step solution to her pain issue. All without her asking, and while I am at work.
I would take it as a loving gesture, don't know if she did or not but I don't care. The person I want and am trying to be would do the same for anyone he cared about.
Hope it is not too serious.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15
