Thanks LT and Job. I worked the entire time we were married and still work now full-time. Today, he makes almost twice what I make, and this has been the case for probably 10 years now. My attorney has indicated I would be eligible for spousal support, for at least 5 years. May or may not be worth fighting for, considering attorney fees. Thanks for the feedback - looks like it's time to get busy cleaning up this mess. Am sad, but I know I have done everything I could to save my marriage. I only hope to continue conducting myself with grace and strength. Difficult for me to keep being nice, now that it has come to this.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15