So I see that most desire for change I think is motivated by fear, instead of faith, and should therefore be avoided.
Interesting, I could argue that resistance to change is motivated by fear. That we humans prefer consistency, security in the known. That's why strangers are viewed dubiously until proven,for example.
Thanks everyone for making me think. Today, I am thinking I want to move on, and get the divorce finalized.
T^2, your comment that my resisting change is motivated out of fear is a good point. And who am I to keep my W in a marriage that she does not want to be in? I'll give this a few days, but maybe it is time for change in my life. It "feels" good to start making this decision.
