Good for you Ss. I'm still very new at all of this. My H was in the house for a long time bomb dropping almost monthly and avoiding doing things as a family before finally leaving a little more than a week ago. (yesterday was difficult). But today was better b/c I stayed detached (for the most part), so you definitely have something there.
M:38 H:41 M: 6y D4 D1 BD 2/14 IDLY H moved out 10/31